The spring on way to Mi•dᵊbârꞋ Shur: Ayn al Khadirat, Al Qusaymah, in the Sinai (panoramio.com, Google Maps) |
In ancient times and some places today, men may have more than one wife – especially wealthy men, like AvᵊrâmꞋ.
While AvᵊrâmꞋ and Sâr•aiꞋ were residing in Egypt, she acquired a live-in maid named Hâ•gârꞋ. When they returned to Kᵊna•anꞋ, she brought Hâ•gârꞋ back with her.
So Sâr•aiꞋ suggested to AvᵊrâmꞋ, "Look, ä' has prevented me from having a child. Marry my maid. Perhaps I will build our legacy from her.1 So AvᵊrâmꞋ hearkened to the voice of Sâr•aiꞋ and married Hâ•gârꞋ, Sâr•aiꞋ's Egyptian maid, as a secondary wife.
When Hâ•gârꞋ became pregnant by AvᵊrâmꞋ while Sâr•aiꞋ still could not, Hâ•gârꞋ disrespected, and began to disparage, Sâr•aiꞋ.
So Sâr•aiꞋ told AvᵊrâmꞋ how Hâ•gârꞋ was bullying her2 and AvᵊrâmꞋ authorized her to deal with Hâ•gârꞋ as she saw fit.
The Spring on the way to Shur (red button). |
Sâr•aiꞋ disciplined Hâ•gârꞋ and Hâ•gârꞋ, seeing that her bullying had backfired and AvᵊrâmꞋ backed Sâr•aiꞋ completely, realized that she created an impossible situation for herself and ran away back toward Egypt.
But slaves can't just run away, especially in an arid wilderness. AvᵊrâmꞋ, being concerned for the pregnant maid, acted as a ma•lâkhꞋ ä' and went out to find her.
AvᵊrâmꞋ caught up to her at a spring in the mi•dᵊbârꞋ, on her way to Shur, in the Sinai, headed back to Egypt.
"How did you get in this pickle?" AvᵊrâmꞋ asked her. "And where do you think you're going?"
"I'm running away from Sâr•aiꞋ, my mistress," she answered.
"Go back to your mistress and take your punishment!" demanded the ma•lâkhꞋ ä'. Then the ma•lâkhꞋ ä' added, "I will increase your descendants too, beyond counting. When you give birth to a son you shall call him Yi•shᵊm•â•eilꞋ, for ä' has heard your prayer. He shall be a frontiersman, and he shall neighbor above all of his brothers."
Then, by Name, she called ä' of AvᵊrâmꞋ who spoke with her, saying: "You are the Eil râ•iyꞋ."
So the bᵊeir was called "Bᵊeir la-Khai Rō•iyꞋ."
AvᵊrâmꞋ was 86 years old when Hâ•gârꞋ gave birth to her son, and AvᵊrâmꞋ named him Yi•shᵊm•â•eilꞋ.
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