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Ri•vᵊq•âh's Despondency Over Ei•sau's Intermarriage

ca. B.C.E. 1987
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Two Hittite terracotta goddess idols of Ei•sau's time; ca. B.C.E. Late 3rd-early 2nd millennium. The larger is 18.1 cm (7⅛") high (photo: christies.com)
Paddan Aram to Beer Sheva & Sinai
Click to enlargePa•dan A•râm to Bᵊeir Shëva & Sin•ai

After Sârâh expelled the Egyptian idolatress, Hâ•gâr, from the family, Ri•vᵊq•âh knew that Yi•tzᵊkhâq would not consider another idolatrous woman for marriage to his son, Ya•a•qov. A priori, the only alternative to the idolatrous local Hittite women would be their relatives—in the house of her father, Bᵊt•u•eil, in Khâ•rân, Pa•dan A•râm.

So, following the tradition that Sârâh had set rejecting the foreign idolatress, Hâ•gâr, from the family, Ri•vᵊq•âh confided to Yi•tzᵊkhâq, "I feel a sickening-despondency1 at how my life is turning out because Ei•sau is married to those idolatrous bat-Hittite women. Now, if Ya•a•qov marries a bat-Hittite too, life just won't be worth living anymore."


Spurred By The Despondency Of His Wife, Ri•vᵊq•âh

Yi•tzᵊkhâq Blesses Ya•a•qov To Find A Religiously-Compatible Wife
From The House Of His Father-In-Law, Bᵊt•u•eil
T?raph: I*shtar-E*aster g*oddess, ca. BCE 1,000
Click to enlargeTâ•râph: Ishtar-Easter, goddess tᵊrâph•im of all nourishment, healing, prosperity and fertility in her characteristic breast-offering ''Ishtar Pose,'' ca. BCE 1,000

Then Yi•tzᵊkhâq called Ya•a•qov and blessed him again; this time with the following blessing for a safe and successful round-trip to Khâ•rân to marry a religiously compatible wife from the house of his father-in-law and cousin, Bᵊt•u•eil:

"Don't take a Bat-Kᵊna•an as your woman!" Yi•tzᵊkhâq commanded him. "Outfit a caravan and go to Pa•dan A•râm, to the house of your maternal grandfather, Bᵊt•u•eil; and choose a wife from among the daughters of his son, your uncle, Lâ•vân. So may Eil Shad•ai bless you, make you fruitful and numerous so you may become a convocation of clans. May He grant the blessing of Avᵊrâ•hâm to you and your descendents to possess the land in which you now reside, which Ël•oh•im gave to Avᵊrâ•hâm."

So Yi•tzᵊkhâq sent Ya•a•qov off, and he went to Pa•dan A•râm, to the house of Lâ•vân Bën-Bᵊt•u•eil, the Aramaen and brother of Ri•vᵊq•âh, the mother of the twins, Ei•sau and Ya•a•qov.


Ei•sau Married a Daughter of Yi•shᵊm•â•eil

When Ei•sau saw that Yi•tzᵊkhâq had blessed Ya•a•qov and sent him to Pa•dan A•râm to to take a wife from there, in conformance with the blessing, and he commanded him saying, "Don't take a Bat-Kᵊna•an as your woman!"; and that Ya•a•qov had hearkened to his father and mother, and went to Pa•dan A•râm, then Ei•sau saw that, in the eyes of his father, Yi•tzᵊkhâq, the Bᵊn•ōt-Kᵊna•an were also wrong for Ei•sau.

So Ei•sau, simplistically ignoring the core reason that Yi•tzᵊkhâq and Ri•vᵊq•âh prohibited marriage to the Bᵊn•ōt-Kᵊna•an—their idolatry, went to his step-uncle by the Hâ•gâr, the Egyptian idolatress, Yi•shᵊm•â•eil, and took Mâ•khal•at Bat-Yi•shᵊm•â•eil Bën- Avᵊrâ•hâm, over his wives, for a woman.

Optional parental preparation:

  1. Hittite Sun Goddess 2inch gold amulet wChild
    Hittite sun god­dess gold amulet (ca. B.C.E. 1550-​1200); approx. actual size
    Note 1 – In the Seiphër Tor•âh, the ÷ is deliberately written significantly smaller in the word ÷ÇöÀúÌÄé. This is to indicate a significant lessening (corruption or contamination) in , which is the gi•matri•yâh for 100 (in this case, being a lessening by a factor of 100; i.e., 1/100th) as well as the standard abbreviation for ÷ÉãÆùÑ (see The Nᵊtzâr•im Reconstruction of Hebrew Ma•ti•tᵊyâhu (NHM) note 13.23.1)—caused by Ei•sau's intermarriage to idolatrous Hittite women who worshiped idols (equating to Egyptian, Mesopotamian and later Canaanite idols), including a sun god, storm god, sky god, queen goddess of heaven equating to Egyptians' Isis, Akkadian-Assyrian Innana/Ishtar, Phoenicians' Astarte (both equivalent to modern Easter) and the Hellenist Greek Aphrodite (morphed into Hellenist Roman Venus) along with a variety of other idols. Return to text

Questions you might anticipate that your child might raise and be prepared to discuss:

  1. What does despondency mean?
  2. What does a priori mean?
  3. What does compatible mean? What is religiously-compatible?
  4. What's a maternal grandfather?
  5. What's a father-in-law?
  6. What's a cousin?
  7. What's a brother-in-law?

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